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My name is Nneka. As a general rule, I don’t do sleeveless. Why, you may ask? Honestly, I’m not always comfortable baring my arms. Some of you understand my struggle. My preferred option is always sleeves, but if care is not taken, the sleeved options can look old and matronly. One day a good friend and I were discussing sleeved dress options for a wedding, and I expressed this concern. She told me, “But you are the queen of dresses with sleeves, and they don’t make you look matronly.” And that’s how the name and concept of this blog was born! I am on a constant search to find items, particularly dresses, with sleeves that look youthful and fashionable. It can sometimes be difficult, but with the right styling, it can be done! I decided to start this blog to inspire myself and those around me to be confident, chic, and fashionable with sleeves! Welcome to my blog!! Thanks for stopping by…stay awhile!

31 comments

  1. Love this Nneka! I don’t like sleeves bc I have stretch marks on my arms. It was very difficult to find a wedding dress with sleeves at s bridal store so I’m getting it custom made.

    1. Thanks, Jessica!! I knew I was not alone in my quest for sleeves! I can’t wait to see your wedding dress…I have no doubt it will be beautiful! I’ll probably have to go the custom route too whenever I get married. 🙂

  2. Love the blog! I have the same concern about my arms and as soon as I saw the name of your blog, I knew instantly what the inspiration was. I’ll definitely be a devoted follower, looking for fashionable styles and tips.

  3. You know you are my sleeved shero! People ask me about why I don’t expose my arms often if at all. I love, love. LOVE everything about this! Consider me part of your sleeved kingdom!

    1. Thanks so much, Sandy!!! Lol @ sleeved shero in my sleeved kingdom. I love it! Welcome to the kingdom! Feel free to contact me if there’s anything specific you want to see!

  4. Hello Nneka! I was searching and searching for the beautiful collar worn by Omerosa on Say Yes to The Dress and found you! Thanks for the correct name of this collar and i want to order it right away. I am not a sleeveless person either. I also thought that Omerosa looked cute with this collar. I also can’t find a picture wearing it. I did manage to locate the episode (Season 15, Episode 5), but i don’t want to pay for it. Since i found the collar, i will just order it. Thanks.

    1. Thank you so much, Karen!!! I know what you mean…it was impossible to find a picture of what Omorosa wore on Say Yes! I’m glad I could help you find what you were looking for!

  5. The sleeve child in me what’s to be like you when she grows up! I have always felt the very same when it came to my arms and options of clothing out there were usually sim pickings. Thanks for this blog and your wealth of knowledge! You have ALWAYS been a fashionista!!! ❤️

  6. So happy I found you! Finally someone understands the whole sleeves dilemma! I will be happily following along. Love, love, love your style.

  7. Great site! How tall are you? I’m thinking about ordering the lace midi for spring, and you said you thought it was too short for church. Thanks!

    1. Thanks, Tasha!! I’m about 5’6″. It’s a great dress and a great length, but the inside lining was just a little too short for me!

  8. Your IG ans Blog has been my new Favorite find!!! I am the same way. Sleeves makes any outfit look classy and sophisticated. Thank you for making this blog.

  9. Love your IG and inspiration! I worked in the banking industry for years so I’m wired to gravitate toward sleeves and get frustrated when cute dresses are sleeveless!! Keep inspiring!

  10. If you’re the queen of sleeves you must be a fan of shopgracia.com they have the best fashionable clothing with fun sleeves

  11. Love, love, love your Instagram page and the inspiration behind it!!! In fact, I saw your picture on modestgals insta and was immediately taken away with your sleek look! And instantly I became a follower. You see I have big arms, (which runs in my family). So I’m not always comfortable showing them. But it’s a challenge trying to find the right top. Your page is giving me life! Would love to try some of your style wear! Thank you!

    1. Thanks so much, Joanna!! I’m so glad to have you here. I completely understand your struggle…same! I really appreciate you dropping this note and saying hi! Feel free to send me an email or DM on IG if you ever want me to cover a specific topic, and I’ll see what I can do!

  12. Nneka – I love your style! I was checking today what is the dresscode in Houston & I see: your great style with a touch of Italy!
    So – I‘ll start with visiting Houston and Texas this weekend with your style in my mind

    1. A touch of Italy…I’ve never heard that before. I love it! Thank you so much, Daniela!! I hope you had a great time in Houston!

  13. I love your blog. I found you first on Instagram and a couple of Pinterest post. I understand the issue of baring your arms. I prefer not to bare my arms. But fun question “What do you do with all your dresses 👗

  14. I don’t like sleeveless because it makes me perspire more. Yes, I wear antiperspirant everyday, but still, sleeves keep away the dampness.

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